Journal
I've always believed that life is meant to be lived, experienced, and occasionally laughed at. Over the years, I've collected plenty of stories. Raising my children, finding adventures in ordinary days, navigating life's unexpected turns, and discovering that some of the best chapters are the ones you never saw coming.
Then, somewhere along the way, I fell in love with a man from Colombia and married him 46 days after we met. Naturally, life got even more interesting.
Welcome to the Collante & Co. Journal, a collection of personal essays about finding love later in life, motherhood, adventure, emeralds, Colombia, and, of course, football (y fútbol!). Some stories are heartfelt, some are ridiculous, and most are a little of both.
Written with love by Molly Castro Collante. ♥️
Until We Go Together
What began as a love story with a Colombian man became a love affair with an entire country. I went there without him. Now I dream about the day we go together.
Adventure Awaits
I had an Adventure Book inspired by Up, full of places and moments worth remembering. Then I married a man who called me his greatest adventure, and suddenly there were new pages to fill.
Football or Fútbol?
I love the Chicago Bears. He loves América de Cali. We married before we understood each other's football, and we're still learning the rules of two games neither of us takes remotely lightly.
I Came Home His Wife
I went to Colombia knowing Adan. I came home knowing Fabricio, the name his family has always called him. Somewhere between those two names, I'd found a family and a second home.
Life in Saldaña
I worked from a laptop balanced on a plastic bowl and guarded five homemade arepas like jewels. Colombia had given me emeralds, but my mother-in-law was sending home something even more precious.
The Road to Saldaña
On the road to Saldaña, I cried for the family I'd just left, began discovering the world that made my husband, and desperately needed a pharmacist to stop flirting with my mother-in-law.
Who Cries Over Soup?
I climbed into the clouds above Bogotá, got emotional over egg-and-milk soup, made a wish for my husband, and somehow ended up shopping for emeralds. All before noon on my first day in Colombia.
On the Other Side of the Glass
For months, his family had lived inside our phone. Then I landed in Bogotá and found them waiting behind airport glass. When the doors opened, they didn't meet a stranger. They welcomed a daughter.
Forty-Six Days
We married forty-six days after we met, despite barely speaking the same language. Seven weeks later, I boarded a plane to Colombia alone, carrying an enormous suitcase and a little piece of him.
Before the Story Begins…
I went to Colombia because my husband couldn't. I thought I was going to meet his family and bring home stories for him. Instead, I came home with the beginning of a love letter.